Couples’ therapy is a process of attunement to the interpersonal dynamic of a relational pair in order to strengthen the emotional bond between them while reducing conflict. In couples’ therapy, we pay attention to what is said, and also to what is not – notably the somatic responses to specific communications or behaviours between partners. As awareness of one’s own emotional landscape is increased, it becomes easier to understand and empathize with the internal world of the other, and therefore to build a strong foundation for lasting love.